Divorce Court
Question by i really don’t know….: divorce court?
hey, i’m just asking one thang.We have to go to court frist before we go to medition right?i’m just asking becuase when he filed for a divorce it gave a court date.but he’s saying that are child mite not be his but it is i’m thanking he’s just saying that becuase he’s wanting his new girlfriend to fill sorry for him lol…do they make you go to medition when you go to court or what i’m from oklahoma.or will they make you waite becuase he’s wanting a dna test done on are child.put i haven’t reseved any paper work telling where to go or when it’s going to happen.
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Answer by musicalj2
First things first – I’m British so the rules won’t be the same, but whatever you do, MAKE SURE you keep ALL the paperwork you receive from courts, mediation services, solicitors – anything and anyone connected with your divorce. That said, I would have thought that a mediation service would have come first, but, as I say, I’m a Brit, so it might be different for you.
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Get an attorney and follow his/her advice. Good luck.
you better go for a dna test.to know who the child actually belongs to..
Sounds complicated but you will get through it, just as i did. In Australia court is the last resort for divorce proccedings, mediation is recomended to avoid high court costs for both parties involved. If neither agree to mediation then it’s “c u in court”.
No, you don’t go to court and then mediation automatically. Getting DNA work done on the child will cost a lot of money. This is not done by courts, but will have to be paid for privately; you *must* get paperwork done to protect your child, however, because this guy is trying to weasel out of paternity and therefore support. Don’t let that happen–your child deserves to be supported financially. There must be some women’s centers near you that can give you advice, or you could call up your local legal aid society and get information from them.
It all depends on your states particular laws. I live in Delaware and recently got divorced. I never went to mediation for the divorce precedings, but we did go to mediation for visitation and custody. If he is denying paternity, a DNA test will have to be performed before you go to mediation or a court hearing. In Delaware, you have to be separated for 6 months before you can actually get a divorce. I would go to your local court house and get any information they have their about their procedures. As mentioned before, keep every piece of paper you get relating to the court matters. Another idea is to keep a journel of contact you have with him. Write down date and time and what it was. For example, if he calls to check on your child, write the date and time and write what he wanted. I would do this from now on, even once visitation is established so you can have an accurate record of events in case you ever need them for other court hearings/mediation. As for child support, I went through the Delaware division of child support enforcement. They handle everything from locating people, to attaching their wages, to going with you to court mediations/hearings. I would find the number for your states division of child support enforcement and go to them. You don’t have to already have an order for support for them to help you and it will be at little to no cost to you.
–Stacey
No one ever said Divorce and Mediation was going to be easy, that’s a little inside joke, SO let me ask you this On the child’s birth Certificate Did your Ex-husband signed the part where it has the name of the Father of the Child ? does the child have his last name ? those are two matters that are important to you and the baby right now, Yes there is Help in situations like this and most women that face this same problem are not aware of their rights and don’t know what services are available in the state of Oklahoma, the SRS office isn’t just set up for people going on welfare and food stamps, We are here to help you, If you are a legal resident of the state of Oklahoma, you have rights in this State that you don’t have in other States, that’s why people move from State to State to get these rights, and lucky for you and your child, maybe that’s why more people are getting divorced because of those rights, because women are really getting screwed over, when their husband Divorce them, The DNA test won’t cost you anything if he’s contesting the birth of the child after he signed the birth Cert, and has his last name on birth cert, because I’m sure like all young men in this State do find out in the end, He had plenty of time 120 days after the child was born to contest the birth then, and If he’s using this as a divorce reason then SRS can help assist you and the child to conclude a DNA sample by getting it court ordered for him to have this done, Here’s the fun part sweety ! If he is the Father he’ll have to pay the state for getting this test done, $ 350.50 and he’ll be ordered to pay child support from the day he filed for Divorce, That comes to around park figure of about $ 380.00 per month up to $ 425.00 per month yes this is just on one child, the discount comes from the Second child, this was done due to cost of living in the state of Oklahoma, If you know someone making less than that have them to go back to court to have their child support updated, If you need assistance contact the SRS in your county and they will assist you in this matter, By law I can’t give you to much advice, unless you’re assigned to me as you case worker. And I’ve been working for the state for over 22 years now. Not all male case workers are that bad and we’re not out to get back at the women here…LOL..Besides I can really see your point on being upset when your husband is playing games with you and the child there, and continues to mess around by blaming you for it too… Give us a chance to teach these guys a lesson for you too, maybe word will get around better after we are done… LOL